Inspiring thoughts for today 22-02-2011

# You are not worthy until you have something that money can't buy.

# Maturity is not when we start speaking "Big things" but actually it is when we start understanding "small things".

# Vigyaan kehta hai..."JEEBH pe" lagi chott sabse jaldi theek hoti hai....aur Gyan kehta hai .. "Jeebh se lagi chott" kabhi theek nahi hoti.

# Never Blame anyone in your life as - Good people give you happiness, Bad people give you experience, Worst people give you lessons and Best people give you memories.

# Everything in life has a beautiful ending. If it is not beautiful ..then believe its not the end, its just leading to the beginning of something more beautiful.

Meaning of Life

A superb message conveying the meaning of life -

We have two eyes and one tongue, which means we need to look twice and talk once.

We have two ears and one mouth, which means we need to listen more than we talk.

We have two hands and one stomach, so we need to work twice as much as we eat.

We have two major brain part, Left and right and one heart, So we can think twice but love only once.

Isn't it amazing how our body parts remind us how to live.

Inspiring thoughts for 28-01-2011

# Life is BEST for those who enjoy it, DIFFICULT for those who analyses it and WORST for those who criticise it. ATTITUDE defines our LIFE.

# When money gains too much value in life, the first casuality is RELATIONSHIP.

# Don't see at others who are doing better than you, Beat your own records EVERYDAY and you will surely get success because success is a fight between "You were" and "You are".

# Two secrets to keep your relationship strong -
1. Whenever you are wrong, Admit it and
2. Whenever you are right, Just keep quiet.

# See is common for all, but some take pearls, some take fishes and some come out with just wet legs. World is common to all, we get what we choose.

# If you have the spirit of understanding, you will enjoy every second of your life, whether it is a "Pleasure" or "Pressure" !

Inspiring thoughts for the New Year 2011

# Relationship is not measured when both take care of each other, it is measured when 1 ignores and the other still continues to care.

# 1 tree makes 1 lakh matchsticks but 1 matchstick can burn 1 lakh trees. 1 negative thought can burn all positive thoughts. Therefore be positive in the new year 2011.

# We get comfort from those who agree with us but we get growth from only those who don't agree with us.

# Vigyan kehta hai, " Jeebh pe lagi chot sabse jaldi theek hoti hai" & gyan kehta hai, "Jeebh se lagi chot kabhi theek nahi hoti."

# We can get PEACE of mind if we let go 3 "C" - Criticizing of others,Comparing with others and complaining for others.

# Speak sweetly so that if you have to eat your own words back, they don't taste bad.

An Appreciation : What to appreciate, When and How: an Important Lesson!

One young academically excellent person went for an interview for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the first interview but in that Company, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV, that the youth's academic result was excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never was there a year he did not score. The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarship in school?" and the youth answered "no".

The director asked, " Did your father pay your school fees?". The youth answered, "my father passed away when I was one year old and it was my mother who paid my school fees".

The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" the youth answered, "my mother worked as cloth cleaner." The director requested the youth to show his hands and the youth showed a pair of hands that was smooth and perfect to the director.

The director asked, " Did you ever help your mother wash clothes before?" The youth answered," never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books, furthermore, my mother could wash clothes faster than I could"

The director said, I have a request, when you go back today, go and help to clean your mother's hand, and then see me tomorrow morning.

The youth felt that the chance of landing the job was high and when he went back, he happily wanted to clean his mother's hands. His mother felt strange. With happiness mixed with fear, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly and his tears fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and that there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that she shuddered when his mother's hands were cleaned with water.

This is the first time that the youth realized and experienced that it is this pair of hands that washed the clothes every day to earn him the school fees and that the bruises in the mother's hand were the price that the mother paid for his graduation and academic excellence and probably his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother's hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, the mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office. The director noticed the tear in the youth's eye and asked: " Can you tell what you did and learnt yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hands and also finished washing all the remaining clothes'

The director asked, "Please tell me what you felt"

The youth said:
"Number 1, I know what appreciation is now'. Without my mother, I would not be successful today.

Number 2, Now I know how to work together with my mother. Only now do I realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done.

Number 3, I know the importance and value of family relationship."

The director said, " This is what I am asking, I want to recruit a person that can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the suffering of others to get things done, and a person that would not put money as his only goal in life to be my manager. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates, every employee worked diligently and as a team and the company improved tremendously.


The Lessons from this anecdote:

A child who has been protected and habitually given whatever he needs, develops "entitlement mentality" and always puts himself first. He is ignorant of his parents' efforts. When he starts work, he assumes every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the suffering of his employees and always blame others. These kinds of people, may/will achieve good results and may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel a sense of achievement or satisfaction.

If we happen to be this kind of (protective) parent, this is the time to ask the question- whether we did/do love our kids or destroy them.

You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn to play the piano, watch a big screen TV but when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it.

After a meal, let them wash their plate and bowl together with their brothers and sisters.

It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love and show them the correct way.

You want them to understand that no matter how rich their parent are, one day they will grow old, become weak and that their hair too will grow grey,.

The most important thing is for your kid to learn how to appreciate, experience and learn the effort and ability needed to work with others to get things done. They should also value, appreciate what the parents have done and love them for who they are!

Inspiring thoughts for 24-11-2010

# Every relationship is like a glass... A scratch on anyside will reflect on the other side. So, always handle everyone's feeling with care.

# Even a small dot can stop a big sentence. But....few more dots can give a continuity.
Amazing but true. Every ending can be a new beginning.

# Whatever you give to others, will come back to you in multiples. You can't stop it coming back but you can choose what to give.

# Its not hard to sacrifice something for someone..but its hard to find that someone who deserves your sacrifice.

Inspiring thoughts for 15-11-2010

# Nothing destroys iron like its own rust, Nothing destroys a person like his own ego !! Its our choice to grow or to get destroyed.

#The most beautiful blessing that can ever be given to anyone is -"May the worst day of your future will be better than the best day of your past !"

# We need power only when we want to do something harmful, otherwise love and compassion are enough to get everything done.

#Its better to have a successful exit than a favourable entrance because what matters is not being applauded when we arrive but being remembered when we leave.